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Sunday, January 8, 2012

Ball and Chains



     Let me start this article with the disclaimer that I have not checked the veracity of some of the claims made in this report. I haven't done any research into whether or not he/she said what the article claims they did. Just the fact that the report comes from The Advocate makes me doubt it's complete veracity in the same way I would expect bias from Faux News. However since this blog isn't about the above piece, it really doesn't matter. Reading the quotes and claims in the article simply inspired what I am about to say about people who oppose Same Sex Marriages. Get over it.

     Recent polls show that the people who oppose same sex marriages are in the minority (Not much of one in some polls, but a minority nonetheless.) With each passing year, more and more people accept that every person, regardless of race, creed or sexual orientation, should have the exact same right to end their personal freedoms and get married. Several states have passed laws recognizing same sex marriages as legal and others have passed “Marriage in all but name” laws. Even more states are considering passing such laws.

     Several very strong attacks on the so-called Defense Of Marriage act passed enacted September 21 have failed, but the very fact that the attacks happened proves that support is growing for Same Sex Unions. Listening to the Reboobicans rail on and on about this subject is like listening to the same people rant against CFLs and LED Bulbs because they grew up reading and working under incandescent bulbs. Their rants and tirades against Same Sex Marriages are like watching someone standing in the ocean yelling at the tide not to come in.

     Now I personally could care less about people getting married. I think that any two people love each other and want to express that love through the legal union of Marriage, then they should be allowed to. I also could care less that there are gays and lesbians serving in my armed forces openly. News break to most people, they have been doing it since military began. Letting them openly serve, bring their sweethearts to balls and events isn't going to change anything.

     (As an aside here, I do find it absolutely hilarious that all of the dire predictions by Reboobicans and Tea Beggars that there would be chaos, violence and severe disruptions in our military forces when DADT was repealed never happened. The whole thing has been a non-issue with the actual Armed Forces from day one of the repeal. Now I will give a rare tip of the hat to both the government and military leaders for making sure that everyone was prepared for the transition. The delay in repeal and the hard work they did probably did a lot to ease what little tensions there might have been.)

     People that know me and I mean really know me, know how I feel about GLBT (Did I leave anybody out, always lose track of the letters.) I have known pretty much all of them at one time or another and could care less what their sexual orientation is. Its as much a non-issue as their race, religion or moral creed. They are no different than you are me. We are all Americans and every American should have the same rights. To single out a group of people and say “Sorry, you have the same rights as we have” is just as much discrimination as, back in the day, saying “Sorry but you have to ride in the back of the bus.” Going even further back, it is the same as saying, “Sorry you can't vote, stay home and make babies.” Discrimination is discrimination no matter who it is directed against.

     So like I said in the beginning, Get over it. You are free to believe that Gays and Lesbians are going straight to Hell when they die. You are free to believe that Transgenders are the very spawn of Lucifer himself. You have the right to feel and believe the way you want to, but you cannot stop this wave.

     The tide is turning against discrimination and it should. People who rail against Same Sex Marriage, DADT etc should stop and ponder this question. Suppose you succeed? Suppose, against all pressure you succeed and deny fellow Americans their rights under the law simply because you don't like the way they live or the thing they believe? What happens when it's you? What happens when suddenly other Americans don't like the way you live or the things you believe? The precedent will have been set and you might very well find yourself denied your rights. Just something to ponder when you have the time. Justice for all or Justice for none.

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